What Makes a Woman “Empowered” and “Independent?”
What Makes a Woman “Empowered” and “Independent?”
Nothing is more attractive than an individual who is independent, mature, has goals and dreams of their own, and can stand on their own two feet in life. Can you agree?
Some concepts that have changed my experience of life, my relationships, and skyrocketed my confidence have been the following:
• Becoming Self Validated - Relying on the opinions of others to feel good about yourself is an obviously disempowering concept but sometimes we really are doing just that. It can manifest through comparing oneself to others, not honoring oneself unless receiving praise from others, constantly seeking reassurance and it still never being enough. You're your own brand of sexy, and when you step into that idea... everyone takes notice. You're worthy of love and respect and it begins with self-love, acceptance, and pursuit of the best version of yourself for your own reasons.
• Becoming Self Secure - Safety and security is a much sought-after sensation in our society and our human biology. Women are especially taught to seek a husband and a father of their children (to which is all personal choice) But more specifically I'm talking about the unnecessary need of another person, partner, or provider to feel secure and complete, not sacrificing your happiness for the sake of security or for merely the sake of not being alone on your own two feet. You are whole on your own. You can survive on your own and are capable and ready to walk away from anything you won't accept for yourself.
• Living a Self Actualized Life - Don't halt your own journey. Do things for your own reasons, self fulfillment, and actualization. You can pursue any life you'd like for yourself and are able to be in your masculine and feminine energy interchangeably. Don't sacrifice your autonomy for anyone. Be loyal to yourself!
This collectively makes a tremendously attractive, impressive individual just as a result of being an independent, complete person.
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